So everyone talks about swapping the other way and getting a 5-speed, but I've got the 'holy grail' 5-speed TD5... and quite like it - but its really a pain for my short-ass partner who can't reach the pedals

Has anyone done this before? Do I just need a trans and an ECU? My ECU is chipped (Superchips) and I'd hate to loose that because damn it makes a HUGE difference and I don't think I could go back to a factory slug. Can you swap the Manual ECU module for an auto one then swap the actual chips to keep the mapped one or is that coded for the trans as well?
I have a V8 auto parts truck (which has a CDL fortunately because my '02 was that horrible year that didn't get them), so that will help - I'm planning to just use as much of the trans from that one as I can.
Anyone done this?