All back together and down to Haast, further problems:
Driving along the track (such as it is) and something hooks up underneath - feels like a stick or something caught underneath. Get to a creek crossing that needs some thought and as I line it up, Al notices the diff rotating.
Seems the third member mount has let go and in doing so sheared off one of the drivers side diff mounts, one of those countersunk cap bolts. The entire nose of the diff is rotating up and down about the diff mounts when under the drive and it was pretty close to puncturing the sump - some impressive looking bolt head shaped dents. We hold it down with a tie-down and I drive out in 2WD - now a familiar feeling.
Again, that night heaps of help from everyone on the trip, but this time, instead of finding a busted diff, we manage to ezy-out the sheared bolt and put it all back together. Then checking the third member mount, find it has come loose again - the thread pulls in somewhat when spannering it, but it is half stripped. Replace the entire bolt with a new one and add another new nut beyond the captive nut. Some spring washers and some loctite and it is better than ever.
Have speculated that the third member mount may have contributed to the previous diff breakage, but it seems odd that none of us noticed while fixing the diff.

One other thing you can see in the photo is the metal clamps on the CV boots - it doesn't take much to rip these off in grass and other muck. May have to replace with zip ties or wrap in insulation tape to stop them getting caught. What have others done?