As you'll gather - there are lots of answers... You're probably best to do a few trips with it "as-is" and work out what sort of budget you want to spend and how serious you want to get.. It's a waste of money getting longer shocks to suit a slight increase in shackle length if you later decide on lift springs or spring-over, then need more new shocks. Do you want to keep the truck looking standard? How tidy (rust-free) is it? Are you willing to carve it up with a cutting disc to remove the bits that rub? That's cheap & easy & can get enough room for 33in tyres. Or do you want to spend the cash to move the bits away from the tyres? Then there's the body lift v suspension lift debate. How big will you eventually want your tyres? Again - money wasted if you put in a lift kit to clear 33in tyres, then decide you want 35's, or 37's....etc.
To answer your question about shocks - remove them & flex the srings to max droop & max compression - measure the length between the mounts, & you have your "target" specs. Allow for a bit of extra compression so they won't bottom out when you hit something hard and the axle goes hard into the suspensions stops. If the shocks you have are reasonably close, and still work well, why waste money repacing them?
If you're willing to accept the risks of buying online, you can save a few dollars on a locker. Look at
http://www.rocky-road.com/ Around NZ$500 including shipping, but be sure you have the specs right, and accept that you have no after-sales support. There have been mixed reviews on this forum about the service. Alternatively, there have been recent rave reviews about some other sites...